Gwaihir
Explorer
I'll chip my pennies into this.
I'm the DM (with 2 small children and MBA classes & Job) and I still procrastinate away the little free time I have, and still come into many sessions less prepared than I could be. We only play once a month due to time constraints & other responsibilities so I don't wing it nearly as much as I once did when we were playing weekly.
the truth is that during Jr High and High School, I loved game prepping so much I would prep stuff that would never ever get used. Now its just the opposite, I love game time, but the prep time less.
that said, While I concur with many on this thread who point out that is just a game, I also understand Bullgrits frustration -- we have a player who in 8 years of playing has probably done like 15 minutes of character prep/thinking away from the table. Still he comes and has fun every time...
I'm the DM (with 2 small children and MBA classes & Job) and I still procrastinate away the little free time I have, and still come into many sessions less prepared than I could be. We only play once a month due to time constraints & other responsibilities so I don't wing it nearly as much as I once did when we were playing weekly.
the truth is that during Jr High and High School, I loved game prepping so much I would prep stuff that would never ever get used. Now its just the opposite, I love game time, but the prep time less.
that said, While I concur with many on this thread who point out that is just a game, I also understand Bullgrits frustration -- we have a player who in 8 years of playing has probably done like 15 minutes of character prep/thinking away from the table. Still he comes and has fun every time...