MechaPilot
Explorer
The basic answer is an inversion of the question. Not, where is all of the alien intelligent life, but rather, what are we misunderstanding that we expect something (alien intelligent life) that to all indications just isn't there. One way to answer that is to take the Drake equation and see how to make the product very low. Since the Drake equation is presented as a multiplication of independent values, that can be further used to frame the question as a choice of terms of the equation as the most likely to be very small.
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TomB
My personal belief is that the smallest multiplier in the Drake equation is the longevity factor. Whether through natural disasters or self-extermination, it seems likely to me that many intelligent forms of life will die out before contacting any others. We just barely avoided nuclear and biological annihilation before our space program even reached beyond our own moon. Our first contact with an alien culture could very well be finding the radioactive ruin of their civilization with an automated probe.