Mike Mearls would post at En World before he got hired at Malhavoc and WOTC. Just like any D&D player, he is going to have opinions..some which people are going to agree with, and some will disagree with.
His posts always struck me as knowledgable and reasonable, even if I did not agree with them.
I have held similar views when saddled with less than optimal DM.
The problem is you can not design a game to be an Asperger proof, inconvenience free rule set.
Someone is always going to play a cooperative style game like D&D, like they are playing a single person, break the level, get as many points as possible game.
Don't design the game around the jerk, by trying to prevent the jerk.
Someone, somewhere is picking their nose, visibly in the middle of a restaurant. You do not redesign the restaurant for this abnormal behavior, you kick the jerk out of the restaurant .