To actually answer the question as it seems to have been intended to be answered:
*) Civilization is destructive, not creative, with a form most akin to an explosion that feeds on free energy (fossil fuels, biodiversity, environment stability) and will eventually exhaust the available energy and go extinct.
*) Interstellar travel is not possible. No mechanism or organism can survive the crossing due to fundamental physical limits. Inevitably, but in short cosmological time, we will be destroyed by any number of possible catastrophes.
*) Civilization is extraordinarily rare -- less than 1 star faring civilization per 5 billion years and 200 billion stars -- working from the number of stars in our galaxy and giving an lead time for development. Numbers are very approximate.
*) A "Great Filter" is killing nascent star faring civilizations. Variations of the Great Filter: Elder civilizations which don't like noisy neighbors. Cosmic catastrophes. Horrors in a sub-dimension waiting for us to pierce the veil which will give them free reign to enter our realm. (For a great read, "A Colder War" by Charles Stross, is a chilling answer to the paradox. See
http://www.infinityplus.co.uk/stories/colderwar.htm, which has the full text of the novelette online. One of my favorite stories.)
*) A civilization capable of interstellar travel is also susceptible to a singularity, removing the civilization from the physical world as we are aware of it. (Take your pick: Transcending our physical reality; Mapping to a finer structure of reality; Tunneling to an alternative universe or dimension.)
*) Wait, what do you mean, we don't have evidence of aliens?
*) Or: Putting "Aliens Amoung Us" (something I just made up) next to "Ghost Hunters" is a brilliant misinformation campaign. Folks simultaneously believe but don't take seriously the invasion which has already co-opted our civilization and enslaved us.
*) Kindof the most boring: Alien life is out there, we just haven't looked
quite hard enough yet.
Thx!
TomB