Have fun playing with those kinds of folks, I guess. I wouldn't. I'd instead suggest to those hand-wringers that there are systems/editions far better suited to the kind of playstyle they seem inclined to favor. And there's nothing wrong with that.And promptly have the entire table complain that he just isn't very effective.
Out of curiosity, are you suggesting that the other players at the table are just grousing because they want you to make different choices? Or that you character is actually causing them to fail at the average adventuring day? Because those are two totally different things.