billd91
Not your screen monkey (he/him)
Now, honestly, this is an interesting question. By salient, I'd generally default to stuff that people would pretty much automatically know about you within 10 minutes of meeting you. So, yes, gender (although that can depend on the species of the character, it really might not be apparent, or heck, even exist - my Star Frontiers Dralazite (think giant sentient amoebas), is often pretty apparent when you meet someone. It should certainly be something that the other characters in the group knows (again, there are specific circumstances where this might not be true such as hiding your gender for some reason).
So, yeah, dropping the odd hint once in a while isn't too much to ask is it?
Or, better yet, see @ MechaPilot's excellent answer to the question as well.
I'm going to continue to hit on this issue for a while - but again - salient to whom? And what assumptions are being made at the table?
Based on your response to Umbran back in post #88 - apparently the gender of the character is only salient to you if different from the apparent gender of the player.
Hussar said:Like I said, I wasn't going to get into specific examples because everyone want's to start playing silly buggers trap games. And, since all your characters at your table are not gender bending, WHO CARES? You look at the player and you know that the player and the character are the same gender. AGAIN JOB DONE.
But the job being done, as you said, is based on a few assumptions - 1) That the player isn't playing cross gender and 2) that you can correctly guess the gender identity of the other player.
In short, you're basically assuming that the job of portraying the gender of the character is completed by simply being a player who is that gender. that seems contrary to the goal of pushing players to role play the salient aspects of their character as it's based on an assumption based on the nature of the player, not the role they play.
Don't get me too wrong here - you can't really hold the other players at the table accountable for not knowing your PC is deathly afraid of spiders if you've never role played them as deathly afraid of spiders. I get that. But, and getting back to some of the other arguments here, implying that someone isn't playing a character feminine enough or black enough or Japanese enough or dwarven enough or good enough or pious enough is really walking over some potentially sensitive territory that may underscore your own biases more than the player you'd be accusing of failing to role play their salient characteristics.