No evidence for humans, what a surprised. Funny how apes often kill the babies of female apes or that some orang-outangs commit rape or that divorce (and being forced to pay a pension) are so common. It seems the common thread is spreading genetic material. The question is, are these strategies genetic or cultural (young ape saw older ape act, does the same, pays off, cultural trait is passed on).
When a man says he has a deep-rooted feeling of protecting women, it is evolutionarily based,
In your opinion. It certainly can be cultural too. Women beater, rapist, murderers or just divorcers are rather common. Are they common enough to also be genetic, in your opinion? I'm curious.
and I think, something to be preserved even as we tear down our cultural biases. Not all men have to share this instinct for it to be real, as there are different roles male animals express.
You still need to prove it is an instinct of males. So far it is just your opinion, you haven't proven that these aren't manifestations of culture.
[quoe]What your opinion suggests is that our natural tendency to protect females/nest is somehow "wrong",[/quote]I didn't pass any judgment, I'm interesting in facts, not opinions. From your comment it seems you are the one passing judgement on me.
What I'm saying is we do not have a need to protect women or kids. Rape, other types of violence, divorce, two timing (hurting emotionally), all sort universal behavior of men show otherwise.
even to the point of denying its factual existence -
You haven't shown any evidence this behavior is genetic in nature, do not misrepresent what I said.
perhaps because you yourself do not have this urge, and see it as a cultural problem.
See, you are the one judging me and taking a swipe at me. Amusing.
For instance, a man taking the road side, or wanting to, when walking with a woman. Is that nature or culture? I say mostly the former, and point to evolution.
Of course, we have evolved with the dangers of cars running over us for millions of years.
You might point to men not giving women priority on a lifeboat.
Or rape and other forms of violence. Two timing, divorce, abandonning your family, etc...
How all of these things can be true at once is hard to fathom.
Maybe for you...
I don't think you and I need be at odds on the issue,
Yes we do. I cannot support people who think their opinions are fact. Especially baseless and mostly sexist ones. I'm sure you think that women have a maternal instinct. Surprise, they do not have one as far as it has been observed. It is not just infanticide committed by some women, but how they do not suddenly become all motherly and protective of their new born. Some do, but is it just that they are more prepared mentally (culture) to take on that new role, rather than a gene kicking in?
and it seems to me what matters is self-awareness in any case.
Have you considered that you are not aware of all your cultural biases? Or that you refuse to awknowledge them by rationalizing them?
I might say to my feminist beloved, "thousands of years of evolution are making me want to walk on the inside of the sidewalk", and we might laugh about it, and she may even honor / witness that feeling as authentic, similar to how she likes my animal reaction to her emerging for a night out, and I'd exclaim "god DAMN!" at how nice she looks.
/snickers