Forgot to address this:
At its most basic level, "privacy" in the sense we are discussing here is the legal right to restrict and control access to information of a particular kind. Nothing more, nothing less. Each of the recognized forms of it- Priest/penitent, Attorney/Client, Doctor/Patient, husband & wife have certain commonalities but also unique boundaries.
The privilege belongs to the person disclosing the information to the second party- only that person can legally disclose the information to a third party.
And not everything disclosed to the second party is covered- only such information as is vital for the proper functioning of the relationship is protected. So if you tell your Lawyer about your medical conditions, or your Doctor about your legal woes, those would not necessarily be privileged communications.
That we live in the digital age doesn't change any of this.
To my eye, except for husband/wife being a longer term/intensive data share, the other examples are simple data transfers.
The doctor/priest/lawyer knows what I tell tell them. They seldom give their own private information. They may give me advice or info that is contextually related to the info I gave them.
in the husband/wife scenario, along with conversations about where I hid the money, the spouse is inherently observing and learning oodles of data points (the kind Google would love to collect). the spouse is learning things about me that I may or may not have intentionally disclosed to them.
Aside from legal definitions (which Danny will know about), the data flow pattern is relevant as is the context and content.
The lawyer might not be able to deny having met with me (don't know), though he can refuse to disclose the content of our discussion.
The doctor is definitely in position to not confirm or deny seeing a patient, as that would violate HIPPA (knowing I saw a proctologist tells where the secret lump is). Even spouses have to sign extra papers to grant permission to disclose to their partner.
Whereas, is the wife required to keep private the boxers/briefs answer? Is her husband human? Male?
What data is insiginificant and thus not protected, what is significant and should be protected?