Christmas is a mixed bag for me. My maternal grandmother passed on Christmas many years ago, and it deeply affected my mother. They had a...complicated...relationship, but ever since that day, every mid-December to mid-January is an extremely stressful time for my mom. Big mood swings, explosive temper, misdirected anger.
And since "stuff" rolls downhill, everybody around her is a potential target- I got yelled at a week ago for asking her what she wanted for dinner. Then I got an aggressive lecture because Elton John got married.
But, cut out all that noise, and Christmas is, for me, a pretty positive time of year.
And since "stuff" rolls downhill, everybody around her is a potential target- I got yelled at a week ago for asking her what she wanted for dinner. Then I got an aggressive lecture because Elton John got married.
But, cut out all that noise, and Christmas is, for me, a pretty positive time of year.