Hey jayoungr,
I'm sorry to hear about your mother's passing, truly. I can't imagaine how hard that must be.
As for the gm confidence, I'm only just starting out as a gm and trying to find my confidence; one thing that has helped me massively is reminding myself that while I do have a lot of responsibility at the table, so do the players.
I may be wrong but it sounds like you're putting a huge amount of pressure on yourself to be a GM god but maybe forgetting your players are just people who can help you. I talked to my players one session because I was struggling to control cross talk and now everyone is helping out and things run much smoother. They also help with little things that add up, one player keeps track of initiative for me and another finds the PHB page when we need to look up spells. It really helps and everyone benefits.
Everyone's there to have fun remember, including you, and it's on everyone to make that happen.
I hope you manage to get your footing back soon and I'm sure you will!
Good luck,
kagayaku
I'm sorry to hear about your mother's passing, truly. I can't imagaine how hard that must be.
As for the gm confidence, I'm only just starting out as a gm and trying to find my confidence; one thing that has helped me massively is reminding myself that while I do have a lot of responsibility at the table, so do the players.
I may be wrong but it sounds like you're putting a huge amount of pressure on yourself to be a GM god but maybe forgetting your players are just people who can help you. I talked to my players one session because I was struggling to control cross talk and now everyone is helping out and things run much smoother. They also help with little things that add up, one player keeps track of initiative for me and another finds the PHB page when we need to look up spells. It really helps and everyone benefits.
Everyone's there to have fun remember, including you, and it's on everyone to make that happen.
I hope you manage to get your footing back soon and I'm sure you will!
Good luck,
kagayaku