I have one bit of advice. DO NOT lend the friend in question any money.
He's digging himself a nasty financial hole by insisting his girlfriend gets a job, and once his credit is damaged enough by too many bank loans, he will start turning to his friends for the money to make ends meet. He'll always be borrowing small amounts, but he'll be regularly asking, using money from one friend to pay off another, etc.
Learn to say no right now, and when he does start borrowing from friends, talk to the rest of your shared friends about cutting him off as well. This will accelerate the financial downfall and put an end to the problem much faster, one way or another. He'll either force her to get a job, dump her, or they'll both end up moving back home with their respective parents.
You could also suggest to her "waitressing is a time-honored tradition among actresses".
He's digging himself a nasty financial hole by insisting his girlfriend gets a job, and once his credit is damaged enough by too many bank loans, he will start turning to his friends for the money to make ends meet. He'll always be borrowing small amounts, but he'll be regularly asking, using money from one friend to pay off another, etc.
Learn to say no right now, and when he does start borrowing from friends, talk to the rest of your shared friends about cutting him off as well. This will accelerate the financial downfall and put an end to the problem much faster, one way or another. He'll either force her to get a job, dump her, or they'll both end up moving back home with their respective parents.
You could also suggest to her "waitressing is a time-honored tradition among actresses".