Nevine
First Post
Darrius of the Guardians said:Two words Nevine, My Choice. If you wish your comments not to be replied to, do not post them in a public forum.
Indeed, it is your choice to to be so self-important as to think I would actually care about what you have to say, in this regard.
Just so you know, "in this regard" means "as pertaining to this matter". I am making that clear so I do not see, "I won't be helping, because as you just said, you don't care".
Darrius of the Guardians said:She has a community to run as you so rudely point out. Or do you think its her job to answer each and every criticism leveled at her on public forums, when she has requested things get PM'd to her, or perhaps you are not as open minded as I thought, and are self-centered egotisical as the rest of whiners.
Apparently, she does want to answer. She keeps responding. The intelligent thing to do would have been to lock the thread. So, you know, queries were emailed or PMed to her. Which she would have requested at the end of the announcement.
As you may have noticed, the thread isn't locked. She does not care one way or the other if discussion/criticism occurs. She chooses to reply. I am not asking her. I am not expecting it of her. She chooses to.
So, no. I am not self-centered and egotistical. Mel does not revolve around me. Frankly, I would not want that level of attention.
Darrius of the Guardians said:That wasn't it referance to it alone, but even before her comment there was no suggestion of other chat software Nevine.
Nevine said:... would have been ...
Entirely aware of that. It would have been pointless even if someone did. Because, it was not up for debate. It was completely the wrong thing to say on her end. Sorry.
Darrius of the Guardians said:No Nevine, I find people who insicently criticize without offering valid and constructive alternatives as whiners. I find people who can only gripe and complain to be whiners.
I find people who lack respect for a company that gains nothing apperciable providing us with a place to Free-Formly roleplay (without the absolute need of their manuals) to be whiners who have been spoiled.
Stop claiming all ISRPers share your view, I am ISRPer, I do not share your view. Ergo: Your idea that I am condeming all ISRPers as whiners as none of them "fall in line".
I did not fall in line with the new chat, but instead of being immature about it, I approached some people through Emails and PMs and got most my questions answered in a civil way without resorting to petty "I'm leaving for good unless my manifesto-demands are met".
I do not claim all ISRPer's share my view. However, you do say "all the whiners" very broadly and generally. Maybe, perhaps, you should come up with something else to say. Oh, I know.
"You're a whiner, because your values and opinions do not match up with my values and opinions."
Egotistical: Check.
Darrius of the Guardians said:You won't, because honestly? The self-centered unable to see other point of view attitude of some of the memebers of the ISRP community has driven me to the point that this has stopped being a stress reliever Nevine.
Me too, I can rarely just enjoy time spent in the room. But, it isn't about me. I want it to be here for other people. Those in the now, or those to come.
Darrius of the Guardians said:Additionally, you won't, as I don't like many of the people who are in the ISRP community right now, and I see no point in further contributions to something that I have gotten nothing out of.
Self-centered: Check.
I don't like many of the people who are in the ISRP community right now, either.
I haven't gotten anything out of it, either.
Except for some people on an Instant Messager list. They're enough. I wouldn't trade them for "getting something".
Darrius of the Guardians said:You won't, because I have contributed to making This site a better place, I did most of it behind the scenes and years ago. I will say this, I have revoked most of My work.
What you did to make "this site a better place" is entirely of your own opinion. It isn't an actual "fact".
Do not claim you have contributed for the sites betterment, I do not share your view. Ergo: You claiming you have done any good.