In my perception, and I take full responsibility for the fact that it is my perception, it truly has not. I can't open a single RPG book or comic, or play almost any video game, without seeing a large number of sexualized female figures while the male characters are primarily presented as normal characters - eg, as the real people who are not sexualized.
It's not so much that I get personally mad or feel insecure when my boyfriend exclaims over the large amount of gratuitous bewbage there is for his delectation in just about every RPG sourcebook and video game. Heck, I'll even save that stuff when I see it so he can enjoy it. Or we look at it together, though he is always guaranteed to get more than I do from it because we are both heterosexual and the vast majority of the sexualized images will be female. There's a little for me here and there, but the percentages really stink.
Porn for consenting adults isn't a problem. What I do mind is the sheer amount of gratuitously sexualized female imagery, including in places that don't really fit or make sense. The message that is being overwhelmingly sent is that females are supposed to be sexualized. Not just sexy with other consenting adults where it's totally appropriate to be sexy, but sexualized outside that context. It's a subtle but pervasive and IMO very serious difference.
I'd compare the atmosphere of generally sexualizing women to being immersed in an ocean. If you have always lived there, it can be hard for you to really think about the fact that the water is wet, or salty. It just seems like, yaknow, how things are, how things have always been, and how they are always supposed to be.
Yes, it is all the eff over the gaming industry. I see it just about every single day, and I facepalm to it just about every single day. I respect that your experience may be different, but for whatever it's worth, this is mine.