As a general thing, is there any player option that is ok to take off the table?
It could be the DM wants to create a certain flavor or general feel. It may even be that the DM making errors in assumptions about history during his efforts. But no matter.
Whatever the reason, is there ever a limitation on player class or race that is “acceptable?” And by that I don’t mean your preference ina particular instance. I mean Is it ever “ok?” Race, class feat, subclass…can I limit any of them without being the “bad guy?”
I think however you answer that question is fine for you and your game. I also think it really explains this whole thread.
If the answer is “no” the DM is never justified in limiting these things, it’s ok but not exactly the common baseline. Some folks are suggesting shock that the DM would ever decide what to include or exclude in a campaign.
The old AD&D dmg would surely suggest the DM has a lot of say so. The 5th edition DMG likewise suggests that the DM is deciding about which gods are present and what tone the campaign should take.
I have always assumed the DM and players have different roles. Liberal inclusion works for me when it’s my time to DM. My pal is a bit more restrictive. I don’t think one of us is “right.”
I just can’t find a reason to be surprised by a DM having some limitations/parameters. In any published book do we have any recommendation for the DM to abdicate that decision making process?
I see a lot of “consult with the DM” in the most tenuous places. Why consult if I know what I want? It’s almost like the DM is a stopper sometimes.
In less gentle sections of previous D&D books, the DM is final arbiter, master of worlds, etc.
You certainly don’t have to play it that way and surely can design a campaign by committee. No judgment. I might like to participate in that!
But acting “shocked” that a DM would shape a world with limitations is hard for me to grasp. Not liking particular ones? Sure. Not liking a particular DM? Understandable. But actually thinking it’s aberrant that a DM would have players select from a smaller group of options?
Your experience is likely a bit uncommon
It’s ok—-but I do believe having limits for a campaign can matter and not be just an excuse for—whatever.