eyebeams said:You either have no fun, have fun at the expense of someone else, or have fun in a way that destroys the ability of your group to maintain fun gaming.
That covers most people, but nobody will admit it.
Could you expand on this? Why are people having no fun? What is it that drives people to have fun in a destructive manner? In your estimation.
I suspect it has a lot to do with the perception one engages in a game because one needs to. That not participating would, in some manner, disappoint others. That gaming is something you do because somebody else says you have to and not something you do because you want to.
Yes, there is something we agree on. I'd like to know your reasoning regarding this subject.