Talking about poo, not so much, though. That's not "brash", that's just being crude. There's a difference.
What-evs, homie. I know my track record a lot better than you.
*sigh* I suppose I'll waste my time typing up an explanation you'll refuse to listen to cuz, well, I like to hear (see) myself talk. Anyhoo, it's like this: When you're with girls and you may have an interest and this interest may be being subtly broadcast via vague flirtation and you
still decide to have the sort of conversation goldo and I were having anyway, well, it
is brash. Cuz, well, the girls may not see it as something silly - they may see it as crude or whatever. The thing is, a conversation like that typically happens between friends. What you're doing in this situation is being yourself in spite of the company - demonstrating a high level of confidence. Sure, I know I'm sitting here flirting with
you, but baby, I needs to haves me my fun, too. You know, that sort of thing. And if she
is put off? Well, that's some valuable intel. She don't like your humor, she don't like your friends, she don't like unfiltered you? Forget her. She's not for you.
I have done this sort of thing more times than I can remember. It works because it isn't schtick. It's me. If some people are comfortable with the idea that they need to hide some part of themselves or the way they interact with friends that's cool. They just shouldn't expect other people to live a lie like they do.