D1Tremere
Adventurer
This was done; what do you think of the GM's response to concerns being expressed?
Do you think Player B should also have spoken to Player A?
I think all the people involved can benefit from regular conversation about expectations, play styles, and any concerns they may have. The more that people communicate (not argue, but really communicate), the more they begin to work towards win/win scenarios. A person who is looking for THEIR moment to shine in the beginning can start to become more excited by helping OTHERS achieve a shining moment as they grow closer (self/other merging). If each person in a 5 person group is only looking for their moment, then each person may get one. If each person in a 5 person group is looking for another person's moment, then each person may get several. And by enabling another person's moment of happiness and success, they may experience those things themselves.
It is common for people to have communication issues, especially when they don't know each other very well. This can lead to framing effects such as looking for fault, or seeing a situation as win/lose only. Large amounts of open and honest communication helps a lot, even when those involved are relative strangers.
Having said that, my opinion is that the important questions here are: What does the group, including the GM, think of the GM's response? What does Player B think about the need to speak to Player A? It doesn't matter what any of us think, as these are the people who need to reach understanding with each other.
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