If anyone has wondered at what some of us have meant by "OneTrueWayism" - above we have a prime example. Perhaps the most politely phrased example I've seen in a while, but also one of the most clearly put.
Well, thank you for at least suggesting that I am polite.
If there is a purpose to your post, apart from attempting to be insulting, I would like to hear it. As I argue GMs shouldn't fudge, or cops shouldn't commit crimes, I would also argue that mods shouldn't attempt to insult other posters.
OTOH, hardly an insult, so I guess you're off the hook. (To whatever degree you were on the hook, of course!

) If the only alternative to "OneTrueWayism" is "Absolute Relativism", then I guess you've got me. Just so long as you remember to exclude the middle!
I also believe that the set of games for which setting the players on fire is a good idea is vanishingly small......much smaller, even, than the set in which fudging is a good idea. I also believe that the set of times when it is a good idea to run a red light is vanishingly small. There are, I guess, quite a few things where I am not willing to accept that things are completely relative.
Of course, that probably stems from my belief that most people have much more in common than they differ. Philosophies that require that we rewrite the basics of ethics or psychology to make sense of what we are told do cause me to question the underlying basis of that philosophy. Guilty as charged.
However, I would also like to point out that there are many, many ways in which one can frame a game while either fudging or not fudging dice. Probably an infinite set.
This is hardly OneTrueWayism. InfiniteTrueWayism seems more appropriate.
But, just as one can have an infinite set that excludes some items, I feel that some level of judicious discretion -- valuation, if you prefer -- is acceptable. Or should be acceptable, anyway, especially given the questions asked in the OP (which, IMHO, seem to require some valuation to answer).
YMMV, of course.
RC