Wicht
Hero
My group has been playing 4e dnd. It's too much like a skirmish game for us. It's like hero clix with too many rules. We like the character customization a whole bunch.
I'll go against the current on this one. If you like character customization, go ahead and give Pathfinder a try. Besides the Core and the APG, there are a lot of good 3pp PFRPG books out there with character options. While Paizo having great customer relations and a fantastic bench of writers are very big selling points for the PFRPG, do not overlook the fact that it is OGL and is getting a lot of 3pp support which allows you to take your game in all sorts of directions.