Hussar
Legend
Whereas other people choked on the fact that 4e forced a different playstyle, and did so, if anything, in a more direct fashion.
And for us 4e sucks because of it.
See, this is where I'm getting stuck. I'm telling you, flat out, that 3e forced a playstyle choice upon me that I did not like. You actually agree that it does so. So, why the constant claims that the problem is all about the DM and not the system?
I am not saying that you don't have a right to enjoy 4e, or even to enjoy it more than Pathfinder, but that there is a reason why others prefer Pathfinder.
I also very much do feel that the problems with the 15 MAD is a problem with the GM more than the system, but then my style of play, dating back to before 2e was a glimmer, does not have the problem, so hearing people whinge about it annoy me, especially when they try to say that I am the one playing it wrong.
No one, least of all me, is saying you're playing it wrong. OTOH, I'm being told repeatedly, including in this post, that I'm doing it wrong and that any 15 MAD problems are my own fault. The fact that your playstyle matches up with the mechanics nicely is great for you. But, that doesn't really help the problem does it? Again, you recognize that the problem exists, but, because it's not a problem for you, the rest of us should stop "whinging" about it?
If folks have a problem with Pathfinder then they should go play 4e, Fantasy Craft, or any of dpzens of other games, I'd rather hear folks going on about a game that they like, even if it is a game that I don't like, than to hear whinging about problems that really should not be problems if the GM is doing their job, followed by disbelief that it is not a problem for everybody.
See, right there. Nice. Anyone who has a problem with something is a whiner and piss poor DM not realy doing their job. Couldn't possibly be the system and anyone who disagrees is obviously just wrong. Can't you see how condescending this is?
Considering how much you bitch about the WOTC handling of the 4e marketing, I would think that being open to alternative playstyles would be high on your list of concerns.
It is not a problem for me, except for that one game, and I handled it in that one game by running the game exactly the same way that I always do. (And have heard one of the players in that game describe it as the best campaign that they have ever been in.)
Bully for you. That's fantastic. You have managed to surround yourself with like minded individuals who share your playstyle. That's certainly one way to solve the issue. Offers absolutely no help to anyone else, but, it works for you certainly.
If you don't want to change your style then find a game that supports that style, don't complain that every game does not cater to your style. Play the ones that do - there are plenty of excellent games that aren't 3.X/Pathfinder.
The Auld Grump
Yup. Agreed. I went to 4e to resolve the problem. But, now I get told by people that I'm not even playing D&D anymore and that I just hate D&D and that I've never really played D&D all the way along.
Me, I just prefer playing in a system that is more forgiving to other playstyles and doesn't dictate my playstyle to me. That others are groovy with having their playstyle dictated to them by the designers is great. No problems. I just find it astonishing that the same people who are telling me to basically piss off and find another game are the ones who constantly bitch about the fact that 4e isn't for them.