In some campaigns I will agree that it seems odd that "monstrous" communities are more accepting than "demihuman" communities.
All I can say is that in my campaign, an elf, dwarf or halfling that walked into (for lack of a better term) "monster town" would probably be killed and eaten unless they kill the first dozen or so ogres that try it. You have to establish a reputation of being the biggest badass around before being accepted.
The problem is that it's really difficult to do the opposite. If a human walks into monster town they can kill their way to grudging acceptance. They can (maybe) prove they aren't to be messed with. Doesn't mean they'll be safe or that it will work, but it's at least an option.
But what could an ogre do? Not kill people? In theory they could help people in one area enough that eventually people would realize the Grog the ogre isn't like every other ogre. But the moment they step foot in the neighboring region (which may only be a day or two travel by foot) they have to start all over again.
Even in a best case scenario, I don't see the ogre being able to integrate into society in all but the rarest of cases.
If a large population of ogres doesn't follow the MM default description then the answer may be different.
All I can say is that in my campaign, an elf, dwarf or halfling that walked into (for lack of a better term) "monster town" would probably be killed and eaten unless they kill the first dozen or so ogres that try it. You have to establish a reputation of being the biggest badass around before being accepted.
The problem is that it's really difficult to do the opposite. If a human walks into monster town they can kill their way to grudging acceptance. They can (maybe) prove they aren't to be messed with. Doesn't mean they'll be safe or that it will work, but it's at least an option.
But what could an ogre do? Not kill people? In theory they could help people in one area enough that eventually people would realize the Grog the ogre isn't like every other ogre. But the moment they step foot in the neighboring region (which may only be a day or two travel by foot) they have to start all over again.
Even in a best case scenario, I don't see the ogre being able to integrate into society in all but the rarest of cases.
If a large population of ogres doesn't follow the MM default description then the answer may be different.