So I realize I'm going back a bunch of pages in this thread, but there were some points I wanted to address from one of
@Lanefan's responses.
So it's always the duty of the player to subsume what they'd really like to explore, either thematically or in-fiction?
I-as-player have no right to expect anyone else to care about my PC trying to find his impoverished sister and set her up with some of the wealth I've acquired through adventuring. It's something I and the DM can look after off-session, or with just a few dice rolls and an expense notation. If, however, I was the only player in the game I'd want us to role-play this out in some detail.
I've brought up the notion of the "
Abilene paradox" now a few times. I bring it up again, because this seems to fundamentally speak to the core premise of that logical construct.
Your statement seems to imply that the desire of
any player to pursue a character-driven goal is fundamentally an imposition on the other players, including the GM. By its very nature, it's "impinging upon the fun" of the group.
But suppose, just for a moment, that deep down, all of the players in the group actually
wanted the option to pursue character-driven goals? But since no one has talked about it within the group, or consulted with GM on what they want, everyone believes that all of the other players are in the same boat. "Well, I'd really like to pursue Character Goals X and Y, but I guess this isn't really that kind of game . . . . Guess I'll just play along, and maybe I'll just have fun bashing orcs, I guess."
If the focus of play is on things other than "stuff the player cares about in relation to the character and the nature of the fiction," then what else is it focused on? As players, are we just to assume that character-driven goals are always secondary "to the fun"? What if "the fun" is pursuing those goals?
One of the points of the Abilene paradox is that if the current decision path is going to lead to
no one being happy, then all things being equal, it's better to make a decision that makes at least
one of the participants happy. If all of the other participants aren't going to be happy regardless, why not allow for at least one participant to enjoy the process?
Historically, the desire to allow characters to pursue character-driven goals has been significantly reduced/truncated by 1) GM concerns about "playing what I've prepared" / desire to maintain fidelity to a pre-scripted story, 2) a largely specious desire to "maintain the illusion to the fidelity of objective reality" within the fiction, and 3) the simple fact that if the GM is having fun, it negates the core principle of the Abilene paradox --- the GM's ALWAYS having fun running the game, even if none of the other participants are really allowed to pursue character-driven goals, because of 1, 2, and 3.
The objective reality of the game world does take precedence over everything. If it didn't, there'd be no objective reality to be found there.
But assuming the game-world reality allows for those aspects one wants to explore, the question then becomes one of priority: are explorations of aspects and elements of an individual character more important (i.e. more worth spending session-time on) than explorations of aspects of the fiction as a party? In most cases, out of consideration for the other players at the table, I'd say no. Further, I'd think that to say yes is just selfish.
Sure. So it's better to just deny all players that opportunity, for the "fun of the game"? How does this even make sense? If I'm a player being forced to subsume my character's interests in the face of other agendas/needs, how does it make any difference if I'm subsuming that desire to serve the GM's needs, or the needs of another player to actually explore their character-driven goals? Why not subsume my desires to serve the need of the other players occasionally? In "traditional" D&D play, I'm already subsuming it to the will of the GM, so how is it any different, other than at least one player actually gets to enjoy exploring their character goals?
Was the question ever asked, "Will my players enjoy this conflict/obstacle, or would they much rather be experiencing something else?"
And can that question ever truly be answered, other than in hindsight? Ahead of time, all one can do is guess.
Truly, I don't mean to offend, but this feels radically short-sighted, to the point of obtuseness. "Can that question ever be truly answered, other than by hindsight?"
Yes. By actually looking and asking for a character background. By looking at the type of character the player is running. By watching and observing how the character (through the player's investment) actually examines/explores/interacts with the fiction. There's hundreds of ways to be clued in to this.
Example from a Savage Worlds game I played in (did not GM) last year, based in the Shaintar campaign setting:
- I specifically gave my character the background of escaped slave from the northern empire.
- I took the "Enemy" hindrance, with a strong, specific dislike for a particular "secret police" organization of that empire (the major force behind the slave trade).
- I specifically sought out and fought against multiple slave companies as a prime agenda.
- I specifically took magic spells that allowed for information gathering, with the intent of ferreting out slave organizations.
Everything on my character sheet screamed, "I want to go after the evil northern empire and their slave trade."
And instead ended up doing a year-long, oft-tedious "setting tour" of Shaintar.
IME most players, if given the choice, would have their PCs avoid all conflicts or obstacles. Given that, it falls to the GM to make sure they have to go through some regardless.
Thing is, if this is the case I'll often outright tell the players this is what I'm doing, either at the time or afterwards.
Not true. Not true at all. If, as a player, I'm going to pursue a character-driven goal, I'm going to assume there will be obstacles relevant to that pursuit. Why on earth would I assume the end state its, "Okay, you win, evil slavers defeated! Now let's go hang out with the Gray Rangers because that's what the GM has prepped!"
Regardless of the reason, it's a case of the GM actively prioritizing some other interest above the enjoyment of the players. And if the players are okay with that, great! Some players are totally fine with the knowledge that the GM is going to regularly place other needs/agendas above their own enjoyment of the game. It's been that way since 1974, and will probably be that way in 2074.
And I suppose that there are some players that are willing to sacrifice some of their own dramatic interests in the name of maintaining "fidelity to the illusion of objective reality."
I'm more than willing to make that sacrifice.
Not so much sacrifice their own dramatic interests as be willing to work them in to whatever the game world provides; and accept that not everything is going to fit in every situation. As an extreme example, if I-as-player am interested in examining and messing around with how artificial intelligence impacts society I'm not likely to get much out of a medieval-based game world....but if that's what the DM has us in it's on me to accept that, and either put my AI ideas by until a better setting for them comes up or start my own futuristic campaign.
When you're not even willing to consider the notion that "narrative first" is an acceptable mode of play, it's easy to see why you're not interested in mechanics that increase player agency.