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<blockquote data-quote="TheEvil" data-source="post: 2763758" data-attributes="member: 23261">I would talk to the wife privately.&nbsp; I consider it the right of anyone even vaguely in the friend catagory to casually ask &quot;Um... aren't you married?&quot;&nbsp; Explain why it is making you uncomfortable.&nbsp; It is possible they have an open marriage.&nbsp; If she get mad and tells you to mind your own business, you might remind her she brought her business to your house.I would also talk to the couch guy in private.&nbsp; Once again, I feel an off-hand &quot;You do know she is married, right?&quot; is well within a friend's bounds.&nbsp; Their reactions should tell you everything you need to know about their moral character to make your decision.Personally, if she is cheating on here husband, I would boot her.&nbsp; If the guy knows she is married and cheating, I would boot him as well.&nbsp; I say this having been &quot;the other guy&quot;.If anyone feels that you are being a moralistic prick, you may realize you didn't have the friends you thought you did and you would probably be better off without them.As far as telling the husband.&nbsp; I wouldn't.&nbsp; You will rarely find a less grateful person than the one you inform that their spouse is cheating on them.&nbsp; If you feel you must, I would recommend an anonymous letter.&nbsp; If you normally would see them together outside of gaming, then I seriously pity you.P.S.- Are you going to let us know how this works out?</blockquote>

[QUOTE="TheEvil, post: 2763758, member: 23261"] I would talk to the wife privately. I consider it the right of anyone even vaguely in the friend catagory to casually ask "Um... aren't you married?" Explain why it is making you uncomfortable. It is possible they have an open marriage. If she get mad and tells you to mind your own business, you might remind her she brought her business to your house. I would also talk to the couch guy in private. Once again, I feel an off-hand "You do know she is married, right?" is well within a friend's bounds. Their reactions should tell you everything you need to know about their moral character to make your decision. Personally, if she is cheating on here husband, I would boot her. If the guy knows she is married and cheating, I would boot him as well. I say this having been "the other guy". If anyone feels that you are being a moralistic prick, you may realize you didn't have the friends you thought you did and you would probably be better off without them. As far as telling the husband. I wouldn't. You will rarely find a less grateful person than the one you inform that their spouse is cheating on them. If you feel you must, I would recommend an anonymous letter. If you normally would see them together outside of gaming, then I seriously pity you. P.S.- Are you going to let us know how this works out? [/QUOTE]

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