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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Griffonsec" data-source="post: 2763820" data-attributes="member: 37817">I can understand this.  As they say, silence is understood as concent.I kinda feel that it's my fault this is as bad as it is.  A few weeks ago the husband, who no longer games with us, went out of town for a convention and the wife was inviting the group to hang out, not wanting to be alone  (my assumption as to the reason).I didn't go, but two of the younger, college-age, guys did, and they hung out watching movies and playing games.  The next week, at game, the two in question were closer.  Sitting side by side whispering, that sort of thing.The next week the were acting VERY comfortable.  I think something perhaps should have been said then and things might have gone better.  They were kinda hanging on eachother, and it was bad enough that one of my players called me after the game and asked "Dude, what's going on?"At that point I resolved to ask the other guy that hung out with them the first weekend.  Call it cowardace on my part, but I wasn't ready to confront anyone.  After all, nothing really bad had happened, but I wouldn't have wanted my wife doing what she was doing.The next week, last week, they were kissing outside on the porch during breaks and after the game.  I kept the other player after and asked him about it, but he said he didn't know, but he was pretty pissed, because the husband was a friend.This week they were having a full-on make out session on my couch.  I was shocked, and should have said something to them at least, but I didn't know what to say.  Hence my question here, which I wrote not long after the game.I'll talk to the pair before the next game I think.  It's not something I feel comfortable doing by email or over the phone.  Emails can be impersonnal, and I don't want to be more accusatory than necessary until I know exactly what's going on.Thanks for all the advice.  I guess I know what to do, it's just tough.  Who wants to be that guy?  The couple are newlyweds, and I get to be the guy who destroys the guy's brand new marriage.</blockquote>

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