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<blockquote data-quote="Ralts Bloodthorne" data-source="post: 2766052" data-attributes="member: 6390">Part of the Guy Code is: Ask before you drag me into it.See, this is just it: Suzy Hotpants and Joe Hormones have drug you into it by doing this in front of all of you, under your roof. What goes on in your house IS your business. Who pays the rent there? Them? No!Should you tell the husband? That's up to you, man. I would, plain and simple, because they drug it under your roof, and made you part of it.He ain't giving you money, she ain't putting out to you. You're getting nothing, and expected to take some risks. When the husband finds out that all this went on under your roof, and you weren't even a good enough person to tell him, much less that good of a friend, he's going to be HOT, and you'll be just as bad in his eyes. (And yes, I did have a spouse cheat on me, my friend who told me, I'm still friends with. The guy who knew about it, and even let them use his room in the barracks, well, he fell down three flights of stairs in a two story building)So, there's a couple of ways to handle this.When they go to come in, stop them at the door and state the following: &quot;We're here to play D&amp;D, not Sluts &amp; Studs, if you're going to play, fine, if not, may I recommend a hotel?&quot; or alternately: &quot;Don't bring this crap into my house. If you guys want to play tonsil hockey, go somewhere else.&quot;Wait till they start playing &quot;count the fillings&quot; and stop the game. Ask to see the guy in the kitchen first. Ask him what the hell he thinks he's doing, bringing this crap into your house. Then call her in, ask her the same thing.Either way, you've got to confront it. They made it your business when THEY brought it into YOUR house.If it's an open marriage, that's fine, still, ask the husband how his hunts are going, because... well... people lie. Still, throw down the rule: &quot;The dice aren't in her orifices, keep your body parts out of them during the game, or excuse yourself.&quot;If you let this keep going, it WILL end badly.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Ralts Bloodthorne, post: 2766052, member: 6390"] Part of the Guy Code is: Ask before you drag me into it. See, this is just it: Suzy Hotpants and Joe Hormones have drug you into it by doing this in front of all of you, under your roof. What goes on in your house IS your business. Who pays the rent there? Them? No! Should you tell the husband? That's up to you, man. I would, plain and simple, because they drug it under your roof, and made you part of it. He ain't giving you money, she ain't putting out to you. You're getting nothing, and expected to take some risks. When the husband finds out that all this went on under your roof, and you weren't even a good enough person to tell him, much less that good of a friend, he's going to be HOT, and you'll be just as bad in his eyes. (And yes, I did have a spouse cheat on me, my friend who told me, I'm still friends with. The guy who knew about it, and even let them use his room in the barracks, well, he fell down three flights of stairs in a two story building) So, there's a couple of ways to handle this. When they go to come in, stop them at the door and state the following: "We're here to play D&D, not Sluts & Studs, if you're going to play, fine, if not, may I recommend a hotel?" or alternately: "Don't bring this crap into my house. If you guys want to play tonsil hockey, go somewhere else." Wait till they start playing "count the fillings" and stop the game. Ask to see the guy in the kitchen first. Ask him what the hell he thinks he's doing, bringing this crap into your house. Then call her in, ask her the same thing. Either way, you've got to confront it. They [b]made it your business[/b] when THEY brought it into YOUR house. If it's an open marriage, that's fine, still, ask the husband how his hunts are going, because... well... people lie. Still, throw down the rule: "The dice aren't in her orifices, keep your body parts out of them during the game, or excuse yourself." If you let this keep going, it WILL end badly. [/QUOTE]

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