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<blockquote data-quote="BSF" data-source="post: 2766220" data-attributes="member: 13098">Ow - hurts to be you.&nbsp; The thing is, this situation is tough to negotiate.&nbsp; You cannot provide enough information in a mere messageboard posting to really allow all of us to give useful advice.&nbsp; It makes you uncomfortable and it is in your place.&nbsp; Ask them to stop.&nbsp; Or to leave.&nbsp; There is no question that you are deserving of at least that much respect.If these people are really your friends then you probably have a bit of an idea whether there is any chance of recovering the relationship.&nbsp; I have to go with Umbran on this.&nbsp; If the relationship can likely be saved it has it's best chances of success with the wife coming clean.&nbsp; If you are a good friend, encourage her to have the courage to make that step.&nbsp; If you are reasonably sure this is going to go down in flames, the best you can do is damage control.&nbsp; Be honest with everyone involved.&nbsp; Realize that you are almost certainly going to lose two players and three friends.&nbsp; You may have other fallout within the game group as well.&nbsp; But at that point, this has moved well beyond gaming.&nbsp; Try to stay out of the ensuing mess of drama.&nbsp; What else can I say?&nbsp; I'm sorry you have to deal with it.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="BSF, post: 2766220, member: 13098"] Ow - hurts to be you. The thing is, this situation is tough to negotiate. You cannot provide enough information in a mere messageboard posting to really allow all of us to give useful advice. It makes you uncomfortable and it is in your place. Ask them to stop. Or to leave. There is no question that you are deserving of at least that much respect. If these people are really your friends then you probably have a bit of an idea whether there is any chance of recovering the relationship. I have to go with Umbran on this. If the relationship can likely be saved it has it's best chances of success with the wife coming clean. If you are a good friend, encourage her to have the courage to make that step. If you are reasonably sure this is going to go down in flames, the best you can do is damage control. Be honest with everyone involved. Realize that you are almost certainly going to lose two players and three friends. You may have other fallout within the game group as well. But at that point, this has moved well beyond gaming. Try to stay out of the ensuing mess of drama. What else can I say? I'm sorry you have to deal with it. [/QUOTE]

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