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<blockquote data-quote="Flexor the Mighty!" data-source="post: 2770233" data-attributes="member: 1013">In any event I'd tell them that doesn't work at your house and to knock it off.&nbsp; I'd tell my two snogging friends that you aren't down with that and to knock it off in your house.&nbsp; It's screwing up the game and it's making everyone feel uncomfortable in the process.&nbsp; Would I tell the husband?&nbsp; Well if I was good friends with the wife and not with the hubby then I wouldn't.&nbsp; If I was good friends with all three I'd tell her that she needs to do something about this relationship other than screw around since it is obviously screwed up big time.&nbsp; If I was good friends with the husband but not the woman I'd tell him most likely.&nbsp; I've got two friends, both I've known for a long time.&nbsp; Married for 7-8 years.&nbsp; She has been screwing around on him occasionally, not in front of me though.&nbsp; Over the past few years he has pretty much treated her like crap with constant put downs and insults and non stop rips.&nbsp; He insults her constantly in front of other poeple.&nbsp; They fight a lot, but they for some reason are still together.&nbsp; Am I going to tell her husband that she has cheated on him?&nbsp; Nope.&nbsp; I've told her that she needs to re-evaluate why she is married to him, and I've asked him why he is with her if she seems to bring that out in him all the time.&nbsp; Neither gave much of an answer.&nbsp;&nbsp; So it's not my buisness since she isn't screwing around on him at my place.&nbsp; If for example there was a party or something here and I walked into the bathroom with her going at it with some othe guy I'd tell them to knock it off but I am not going to go charging to tell her husband.&nbsp;&nbsp; It's not my buisness since in a way I can't really blame her.&nbsp; I think she should leave him instead but she won't.&nbsp; I think he should leave her since he treats her with so little respect.&nbsp; But they don't and I'm not going into the middle of that mess. Do you know what kind of relationship they have?&nbsp; Do you know what is going on for this to get to this point between them?&nbsp; How close are you to both of them?&nbsp; There can be more going on than is covered &quot;guy code&quot; drivel.In any event the whole situation sucks. Mine and yours.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Flexor the Mighty!, post: 2770233, member: 1013"] In any event I'd tell them that doesn't work at your house and to knock it off. I'd tell my two snogging friends that you aren't down with that and to knock it off in your house. It's screwing up the game and it's making everyone feel uncomfortable in the process. Would I tell the husband? Well if I was good friends with the wife and not with the hubby then I wouldn't. If I was good friends with all three I'd tell her that she needs to do something about this relationship other than screw around since it is obviously screwed up big time. If I was good friends with the husband but not the woman I'd tell him most likely. I've got two friends, both I've known for a long time. Married for 7-8 years. She has been screwing around on him occasionally, not in front of me though. Over the past few years he has pretty much treated her like crap with constant put downs and insults and non stop rips. He insults her constantly in front of other poeple. They fight a lot, but they for some reason are still together. Am I going to tell her husband that she has cheated on him? Nope. I've told her that she needs to re-evaluate why she is married to him, and I've asked him why he is with her if she seems to bring that out in him all the time. Neither gave much of an answer. So it's not my buisness since she isn't screwing around on him at my place. If for example there was a party or something here and I walked into the bathroom with her going at it with some othe guy I'd tell them to knock it off but I am not going to go charging to tell her husband. It's not my buisness since in a way I can't really blame her. I think she should leave him instead but she won't. I think he should leave her since he treats her with so little respect. But they don't and I'm not going into the middle of that mess. Do you know what kind of relationship they have? Do you know what is going on for this to get to this point between them? How close are you to both of them? There can be more going on than is covered "guy code" drivel. In any event the whole situation sucks. Mine and yours. [/QUOTE]

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