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<blockquote data-quote="Kastil" data-source="post: 2773106" data-attributes="member: 5649">I don't believe Griffonsec said anything in this thread where the husband's an ass or that the wife has 'issues'.&nbsp; The fact is sometimes there's things going wrong in a marriage that one or the other are oblivious to.&nbsp; Instead of talking to your spouse (WOW! What a concept!), they find someone else to lay their feelings out.All it takes is someone to make the other person 'feel' like they're something special, perhaps what they believe is missing in their own marriage.&nbsp; These false feelings lead them into the relationship.&nbsp; It's kinda like the first time you fall in love and you feel great for that period.It's when you wake up from your lucid dream that your world falls apart.&nbsp; However this thing turns out, someone's going to be emotionally scarred.&nbsp; It would be nice if people would take a step back and realize what they're doing before they do it but it usually doesn't happen.Humans, by nature, can be very selfish creatures only caring for their own wants and desires.&nbsp; I've been married for over 14 years and have certainly had my share of ups and downs and lack of communication almost blew that all to hell.&nbsp; The more she keeps this a secret from her husband, the more of a chance she loses what she had (whatever that may be) with her husband.&nbsp; He might be able to forgive her but he'll never forget.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Kastil, post: 2773106, member: 5649"] I don't believe Griffonsec said anything in this thread where the husband's an ass or that the wife has 'issues'. The fact is sometimes there's things going wrong in a marriage that one or the other are oblivious to. Instead of talking to your spouse (WOW! What a concept!), they find someone else to lay their feelings out. All it takes is someone to make the other person 'feel' like they're something special, perhaps what they believe is missing in their own marriage. These false feelings lead them into the relationship. It's kinda like the first time you fall in love and you feel great for that period. It's when you wake up from your lucid dream that your world falls apart. However this thing turns out, someone's going to be emotionally scarred. It would be nice if people would take a step back and realize what they're doing before they do it but it usually doesn't happen. Humans, by nature, can be very selfish creatures only caring for their own wants and desires. I've been married for over 14 years and have certainly had my share of ups and downs and lack of communication almost blew that all to hell. The more she keeps this a secret from her husband, the more of a chance she loses what she had (whatever that may be) with her husband. He might be able to forgive her but he'll never forget. [/QUOTE]

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