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<blockquote data-quote="Hillsy7" data-source="post: 7191962" data-attributes="member: 6689191">That's kinda 2 points.1) Dismissing it as a non-issue objectively (as opposed to &quot;I haven't seen come across this&quot; or &quot;Not really noticed&quot; which is just a subjective summation of experience and opinion) isn't fair play. However, I would say there is still a decent amount of bleed over from people reacting to other people and poorly wording their annoyance. Hell I do it all the time where I realise I'm attributing a comment a different intention or tone because of something else. But yes, unless the overwhelming weight of opinion is one way or t'other (and even then, probably not as after all D&amp;D is almost infinitely variable), dismissing another player's issue as a non-issue isn't really good form.2) However, &quot;Just use story and your problems are over&quot; is a reasonable answer (taken obviously without the dismissive first part). It might not be the solution you want - or even in the same ballpark as the solution you want - but unless it's totally destructive and/or insulting (e.g. &quot;Just quit GM-ing mate&quot;), I'm afraid it's still valid. And again, with the volume or cross-posting and differing unsaid intentions and poor language, it's pretty easy to develop a bug-bear about it. However, it is still a viable solution - just not in the games you want to run/play in.....</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Hillsy7, post: 7191962, member: 6689191"] That's kinda 2 points. 1) Dismissing it as a non-issue objectively (as opposed to "I haven't seen come across this" or "Not really noticed" which is just a subjective summation of experience and opinion) isn't fair play. However, I would say there is still a decent amount of bleed over from people reacting to other people and poorly wording their annoyance. Hell I do it all the time where I realise I'm attributing a comment a different intention or tone because of something else. But yes, unless the overwhelming weight of opinion is one way or t'other (and even then, probably not as after all D&D is almost infinitely variable), dismissing another player's issue as a non-issue isn't really good form. 2) However, "Just use story and your problems are over" is a reasonable answer (taken obviously without the dismissive first part). It might not be the solution you want - or even in the same ballpark as the solution you want - but unless it's totally destructive and/or insulting (e.g. "Just quit GM-ing mate"), I'm afraid it's still valid. And again, with the volume or cross-posting and differing unsaid intentions and poor language, it's pretty easy to develop a bug-bear about it. However, it is still a viable solution - just not in the games you want to run/play in..... [/QUOTE]

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