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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Living Legend" data-source="post: 5526197" data-attributes="member: 6668383">That just changed the whole thing for me.  She doesn't need this relationship to work out with this other dude, she wants it too.I was in a similar situation a few years ago (we all were or you wouldn't be getting any responses I'm guessing).  We had that connection, unlike anything I have ever felt.   She was engaged but mostly for stability but she thought we were soulmates and it was all very complicated.The bottom line was she didn't know what she wanted, and I should've gotten out of there a lot sooner.  It ended very badly, and it really broke my heart.  And I wasn't totally over her when I met the woman who is now my wife, and I thought about not seeing her because of that, but I'm glad I didn't make that decision.  I never found that same connection with my wife as I did with that girl, but looking back with clearer eyes, and having run into that girl since then, I am confident that I am happier with my wife than I would have been with her.  We both know what we want out of life, and that clarity makes our relationship better, which in turn makes raising a family easier.  It amazes me how people don't seem to realize that one seemingly small decision can dramatically affect the rest of their lives.  It doesn't matter how much you love someone, if they can't see the right thing to do then there isn't anything you can do about it.  I say don't pass up an opportunity just because the timing sucks, timing always sucks.</blockquote>

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