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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Vyvyan Basterd" data-source="post: 5530068" data-attributes="member: 4892">I know you don't want to hear this, but she is being manipulative. A good manipulator leaves those she toys with feeling like they haven't been. I was in almost your exact situation (except for the whole international aspect) about 20 years ago. My Leela had one crappy boyfriend after the next and used me as a shoulder to cry on. She asked me questions like "Would you marry me?" when crappy boyfriend #3.2 was non-commital to the point of cheating on her, knowing full-well that I had feelings for her. My feelings and her emotional dumping made it harder and harder to be friends. I realized that there was something about me that didn't click with her in a romantic sense (not that there is anything wrong with me, I just wasn't right for her), because if there was she would have dumped whoever and taken any of numerous chances to be with me. Ultimately we grew apart and both married other people. She moved away and cut herself off from her life here (as one of the bf is still a close friend of mine today and she wants nothing to do with him). We've crossed paths on the internet and would be happy to see each other in person if either of us travelled to the other's area. In hindsight I wish I had the wisdom to realize I was trapped in a situation of something that never was to be so I could have approached our relationship from a different angle that would have left me feeling less hurt at the time.Hopefully me view from experience and the utside can help you avoid the same.</blockquote>

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