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Message: <blockquote data-quote="skerritthegreen" data-source="post: 6771374" data-attributes="member: 70203">I would very much like to focus on things that the AL could actually do something about and not what it can't (and thus my original post). I am also quite fed up today with a large number posters pulling the "I'm right, you are wrong and a ****-ist because I will make assumptions about you, and if you disagree, feel free to message me in private so that the last public word is that you are a horrible person." Its been happening all to frequently (not specifically to me) and I've decided that I don't like that kind of bullying. You took the "most grievous of all" phrase from the original post where the OP spoke about the DM violating the code of conduct in regards to swearing and making people feel unwelcome, and instead claimed that it was about the DM's poly relationship (which was not brought up until the OP's 3rd post further down the page.) You assume that the swearing and the discussion of polyamorous are the same and that I am really referring to the poly when I just want us to go back to the original post about how to deal with a table when the DM and store owner are not responsive to your feelings. Back to the topic at hand, the original poster brought up that he/she was having a difficult time at their store because:a) They started the season late and characters are of various levels. b) The number of games being played is off. (and the DM seems to be running some games at his house for select players, advancing them faster than others)c) The poster was not always allowed to play due to the number of players. d) Only some people are allowed to DM by the store. e) The tables were using voting to determine if other players were violating the Code of Conduct (swearing).f) The store owner is not responsive to complaintsIt is not until the OP's 3rd post that he brings up the side discussion issues (in this case referring to the DM telling the player that he is poly but I think more in refeence to he other commentary of a; possibly e). I would very much like to keep the focus on the original discussion (where I was originally) about how to deal with a store where you think shenanigans are in play or you do not feel welcome, as opposed to the side discussion that popped up about the players hang-ups with his/her DM's sex life (seeing as that is not something the AL has any control over and we're not in the business of giving out advice on how to work on one's emotional/psychological issues).</blockquote>

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