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Message: <blockquote data-quote="megamania" data-source="post: 2880339" data-attributes="member: 9255">Anyone that recognizes my username knows I have had a rough year so far and a rougher life.   I have survived cancer, diabetis and my wife's constant affairs.  I have dealt with major credit card dept which is nearly overwhelming me and I am due for a trial later this month.  On March 2nd I had a brief nervous breakdown and tried to take my life.  When I survived this I figured it was a sign to fight on.Recently I have been doing a lot of monitoring of the phones and discovered my wife is calling this man as much as he does her.  This tears me up.The kids give me false information on the subject on purpose.  They have been brainwashed not to tell me since it will upset me.So I got this wonderful idea of buying a ditical recorder and setting in the room where the phone is.   It settled much.  TOO MUCH.They are planning on leaving in two weeks and have the State "deal" with me.Needless to say I asked her about this.   She was villified that I had set up this recorder even though I have told her for a week that I was going to bug the house.  She honestly thought I was kidding or was unable to.The insane thing is this-i still love herWe discussed the phone call and what to do.  It turned out they were talking about buying "my share" of the house but figured I never would agree to it.   This would make me dept free.  They also wore not going to ask for child support (the court decides that I believe).I surprised her said we needed to talk about it -  all three of us.I had this great plan-   he buys the house- makes me free of bills outstanding.  There was a double-wide for sale that went up just this week that was within 1/2 mile of the house.   Far enough away that I wouldn't always see what was going on but close enough that one tearful call for help I could be there within 1 minute.  That is for both the kids and the wife.oh yeah-   he is violent and vindictive also.   I've had two restraining orders on him and wanted a third but if my wife won't follow thru with it then why bother?Okay-   We have a meeting set up for Saturday where I will tape record the meeting and have a paper of set questions and answers to sign.  Basically I'm trying my best to protect myself.This has been hard then whammo-  the home is sold!   The next closest place for sale is way out of my budget, 5 miles away, and as the constable's son, I know what happened within that house-  I don't want it!To top things off-   apartments begin at 750 for a small 1 bedroom.  That is 45 minutes away.  The others cost even more.My mother is convinced I will "snap" again.   My wife is becoming worried.   My entire life is officially crap.What the heck am I to do?</blockquote>

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