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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Mycanid" data-source="post: 2880875" data-attributes="member: 40370">Mega - I also do not know you well save here in the forums. I am very glad that you have been willing to tell us what is going on with you and ask for help. Even if none of us are able to do so it is a very good thing that you are able to ask ... I have known many who do not try to reach out to ANYone at all. Most have had very difficult lives.As for the big G sitting things out ... as you know it is very hard for us to second guess Him. My own experience is that often he seems to our perceptions to sit things out, but He is always there, and allows things to occur according to His reasons, which are always for the best, even if they do not seem to us to be so at the present moment. This has been proven to me time and time and time again, both in my own life and in others' I have known.I like what Umbran said - breathe. Step back from things and do a first things first, like he said. I know it is SOOO hard to try to separate oneself from a situation when the heart is so involved - with your ex-wife and your children and all, many who have gone through the same thing have told me how difficult it can be. But it is not impossible. Just difficult ... but you know that.After the immediate things are out of the way then go on to the next things. Step by step, inch by inch, and if you are religious - turn to God, even when it seems He is not present to you. Turn steadily and consistently. He will help.Again, I know it is hard and difficult and painful ... please keep us posted and up to date on things. You know that many in here wish you well and even pray for you - which is really about all they can do at such a distance. (Especially way off there in Vermont!)I would just suggest one other thing ... and on this you needn't listen if you don't want. If things are as over as you say they are I would stop "collecting evidence" of your wife's ... err ... moving on. It will only hurt more and more. You should probably be more focused on also moving on rather than grinding salt into your wounds. Just a suggestion, though, and I am heartily sorry if I have crossed the line or upset you in this.God bless you sir - be strong. Cling to God. And please keep us posted....</blockquote>

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