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Message: <blockquote data-quote="megamania" data-source="post: 2883608" data-attributes="member: 9255">Well I have my first face to face talk with him.   I can see he has an angry button that concerns me but I am confident he cares for both my wife and children. The funny thing is HE is having some second thoughts now.  Afterall- she cheated on me.  What is keeping her from cheating on him later.  Funny in a way.During the talk it also became evident that what my wife tells me is different from him.   Both of us saw this clearly during our talk.   She is suddenly aware how close she is coming to losing both of us because her inability to tell the truth and/or be faithful.This now scares me.  What if she is left out by both of us?  I know I need to move on but to leave her when I still care ....its a weird world.As far as doing something stupid (life threatening) I think I am past that now but it wouldn't take much.I'm just too tired from packing.   Looks like I will need to look into e-bay soon to sell 100's of action figures, 100's of comicbook TPBs and 1000's of comics.  The need for cash and less need to keep stuff I just don't use/look at anymore.During our meeting we didn't cover much but I will have the kids on rotating weekends (unless the court says otherwise) and still not pay childcare (clearly the court will look into THAT one).Thankyou everyone here.  If not for you folks and my sadly my mother, I may not be here.  It was hard but I told her about my attempted suicide last March.  She now calls daily if only to be sure I answer.People care.  My wife still cares.  I can see that.  If I didn't have cancer and become limited to working 2nd & 3rd shifts leaving her alone we would possibly be together even now.  That is life.Corny as it sounds, I suppose because we both love the same woman whom loves both of us, I can see he and I becoming friends (though not soon   bastard is making my DnD room into a pool table room) I ended our meeting with something I had told my wife that she laughed into tears over and its true.We should write a TV show for PAX or other Hallmark TV type shows.My wife of 14 years has fallen in love with another man.  They tried to stay away but couldn't.  It grew into love...I think true love.  During this time I fought with cancer, diabetes, working 70+ hours a week and Hormone issues.   Its not I don't want to be with her, its more about time and energy.I am "handing" her over to him.  This is out of love and care.  He has the means to spend quality time with them, is finiancially secure, works 8-4 and yet brings in what I have to work 6am to midnight to reach.Anyway- back to the hallmark moment....   They are dancing at their wedding.  I have a dance with her and sit down.  I am nearly in tears and a lady behind me introduses herself and asks which side of the family I am from.  Back ground would be she likes my hobbies and the such and it ends with the strong possibility of my finding true love after all of this rtime also,damn its hard to see to type with tears.  Such a sap.Anyway- again.  Thankyou everyone.</blockquote>

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