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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Nyaricus" data-source="post: 2887810" data-attributes="member: 35678">Treebore, I'll extrapolate what Chimera was saying:While the thought behind this may be well intentioned, this is not helpful.If you haven't been through this kind of pain, then you've no idea how it is.If you have been through this kind of pain, less bitching and more sympathy (as displayed by other board members) would be great.---I'd be a bad person if I didn't say congrats on getting through your tough times - I think most normal people have those - but coming in here with "You've been busy sitting on your arse feeling sorry for yourself" is not that way to go about this sort of tricky subject, and it wasn't even true - he met with his wife, her new lover, and had a sane, reasonable conversation about how things are going to work out between everyone, on top of packing, prioritzing and whatnot. That's hardly not doing anything, or 'keeping busy on ones arse feeling soryr for onesself'. And loose the psuedo-swearing - it's not making your preachy post sound any better.Regards,-Nyaricus</blockquote>