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<blockquote data-quote="DonTadow" data-source="post: 2483538" data-attributes="member: 22622"><p>THe last thread I ran </p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.enworld.org/showthread.php?t=142988" target="_blank">http://www.enworld.org/showthread.php?t=142988</a></p><p></p><p>contained a problem about what I assumed was a conflict between two characters whom appeared to be getting out of hand. After talking with both and following the enworld advice, I discovered that Sadiyah, the new girl, had no malice or ill intention against Alexandra she was just playing her character well. But it seemed Alexandra was taking her character far too seriously. </p><p></p><p>To be honest, if this was the only thing, I wouldn't care, but it seems like every weeks I am talking to her or emailing her about something. Now, this is not some d and d player who does not know the rules. Shes 33 years old and has been playing for 12 years. </p><p></p><p>Which is making me even more annoyed. I can't kick her out of the group, because everyone loves her husband's character, but in private everyone in the group aside from her husband and the new girl have told me that they understand she's playing her character but the character is annoying and a hinderious to progression at times. </p><p></p><p>---things the character has done that have annoyed me </p><p>- We use the magic point system from the EOM, she consistently (every level) creates a spell that abuses the system and doesn't follow the rules of the book. I have two other magic users in the group and I never get the spells from them I reject from her. </p><p></p><p>- This is my number one problem, she consistently tries to break the rules of the game and will not let it drop once told that she is not allowed. She will then attempt toa rguem why she should be allowed. But it is not an agressive arguement, so its more of annoyance than anger. </p><p></p><p>ex . This weekend, she tried to sneak in a fireball spell that had no save for the victims. When I asked her how she came up with that, she said "we'lll im casting it at the ground and I only have to make the touch attack on the ground ". It didn't even make sense to the novice players in the room whom looked at her as if she was crazy. </p><p></p><p>ex, She wanted to cast a spell in a crowded bar where magic is forbidden. The spell she wants to cast requires a touch range, and both vocal and movement. She proceeded to argue for 2 minutes as to why she should be able to cast the spell "on everyone in the room" without them noticing one by one. It was silly. </p><p></p><p>- Her priestess never agrees with the rest of the party. Which is fine and dandy, but sometimes it seems she goes against the party when its completely against her allignment and her church. Case in point, she killed an NPC 12 year old girl this weekend to kill a couple of cr 3 bugs. She also has an intelligent weapon that contains an avator of her diety, yet she attempts to go against it whenever she can. She becomes upset when she loses the ego save and then has to do what the weapon wants. </p><p></p><p>- Ive had to ask her twice now to roll her damage with american dice.</p><p></p><p>- If somthing doesnt go her way, she consinstently brings it up. Case in point, this weeken the pcs had a chance to investigate a orphanage or escort a carvan. There were only two pcs with her when she askedto look around the orphanage. One of which could not say anything the other didn't like her and paid her no mind. All week we have had to listen to her talk about how we should have checked the orphanage and "no one listens to her". </p><p></p><p></p><p>Has anyone ever dealt with a character like this, because there is nothing like this characterization in the DMG 2. How do i handle this? I am at my wits end because it seems like every week i spent an hour dealing with her problems that takes away from time i could be prepping for the game?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DonTadow, post: 2483538, member: 22622"] THe last thread I ran [url]http://www.enworld.org/showthread.php?t=142988[/url] contained a problem about what I assumed was a conflict between two characters whom appeared to be getting out of hand. After talking with both and following the enworld advice, I discovered that Sadiyah, the new girl, had no malice or ill intention against Alexandra she was just playing her character well. But it seemed Alexandra was taking her character far too seriously. To be honest, if this was the only thing, I wouldn't care, but it seems like every weeks I am talking to her or emailing her about something. Now, this is not some d and d player who does not know the rules. Shes 33 years old and has been playing for 12 years. Which is making me even more annoyed. I can't kick her out of the group, because everyone loves her husband's character, but in private everyone in the group aside from her husband and the new girl have told me that they understand she's playing her character but the character is annoying and a hinderious to progression at times. ---things the character has done that have annoyed me - We use the magic point system from the EOM, she consistently (every level) creates a spell that abuses the system and doesn't follow the rules of the book. I have two other magic users in the group and I never get the spells from them I reject from her. - This is my number one problem, she consistently tries to break the rules of the game and will not let it drop once told that she is not allowed. She will then attempt toa rguem why she should be allowed. But it is not an agressive arguement, so its more of annoyance than anger. ex . This weekend, she tried to sneak in a fireball spell that had no save for the victims. When I asked her how she came up with that, she said "we'lll im casting it at the ground and I only have to make the touch attack on the ground ". It didn't even make sense to the novice players in the room whom looked at her as if she was crazy. ex, She wanted to cast a spell in a crowded bar where magic is forbidden. The spell she wants to cast requires a touch range, and both vocal and movement. She proceeded to argue for 2 minutes as to why she should be able to cast the spell "on everyone in the room" without them noticing one by one. It was silly. - Her priestess never agrees with the rest of the party. Which is fine and dandy, but sometimes it seems she goes against the party when its completely against her allignment and her church. Case in point, she killed an NPC 12 year old girl this weekend to kill a couple of cr 3 bugs. She also has an intelligent weapon that contains an avator of her diety, yet she attempts to go against it whenever she can. She becomes upset when she loses the ego save and then has to do what the weapon wants. - Ive had to ask her twice now to roll her damage with american dice. - If somthing doesnt go her way, she consinstently brings it up. Case in point, this weeken the pcs had a chance to investigate a orphanage or escort a carvan. There were only two pcs with her when she askedto look around the orphanage. One of which could not say anything the other didn't like her and paid her no mind. All week we have had to listen to her talk about how we should have checked the orphanage and "no one listens to her". Has anyone ever dealt with a character like this, because there is nothing like this characterization in the DMG 2. How do i handle this? I am at my wits end because it seems like every week i spent an hour dealing with her problems that takes away from time i could be prepping for the game? [/QUOTE]
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