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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Eolin" data-source="post: 2388841" data-attributes="member: 13266">I feel a need to vent. And seeing how I've already vented to my friends, the Enworld community is next.A week and a half ago I met a girl. She's beautiful, a vegan, and fun to be around. We exchange numbers, and a few days later schedule a lunch.She arrives half an hour late, dressed to kill and with a story of her being late due to getting distracted by her art. Did I mention she's an artist?When I say dressed to kill ... She wa wearing this floor-length slip, and a blouse that didn't have a back. Before we left, we exchange a kiss. She turns it into a tease, which I just find more attractive. Leaves me wanting more. Much more.I write off her being late to her being a little flaky. We arrange another date to go see Shakespeare in the Park. The plan is for me to call her, then come by and pick her up. I'll drive, as my car is in better shape than hers and its probably a 40 minute drive.When I call her, I don't get an answer. I figure she's just being flightly, and call her back a few times that day. Maybe once or twice more than I should have, but at this point I'm growing despondent. I try calling her the fourth to see if she wants to go to a party -- no answer. Here it is the seventh and I still havn't heard from her. I tryed calling her one last time today, and left a message that included that I'm now pretty sure she's interested and this will be the last time I bother her.What I find so frustrating about this little situation isn't that she's not interested -- that I could handle. But that she led me to think she was, and then changed her mind without letting me know. I was on cloud nine after our date, I presume she wasn't. Which is all well and good, people are people. But to not tell me? That's the frustating part -- I'd think I at least deserve her answering the cell and saying "Sorry, not interested." It would have let me know a whole lot earlier, and I woudn't have had to wonder about it for days and days. Which this way I did. If there is a question here, it is likely: Why do (some) women simply stop responding when they arn't interested in a guy, instead of telling him straight up?Note: I bathe once to twice a day. I don't have AS. I brush my teeth everyday. I eat organic fruit and yogurt. I've lost 30 pounds in the past 6 months, and exercise on an almost daily basis. I'm employed, live in an apartment, and very soon I am moving to Pittsburgh for graduate school.</blockquote>

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