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<blockquote data-quote="WizarDru" data-source="post: 1745945" data-attributes="member: 151">Assuming you have no medical insurance, there are plenty of free support groups that can help.&nbsp; A simple google of the health and human services in your area should help.&nbsp;&nbsp;Maybe part of the problem here is the goal.&nbsp; It sounds like you're not looking for a relationship, you're thinking purely in terms of sex.&nbsp; That's fine, but understand that if what you're really looking for is a shallow encounter for physical gratification, the rules change.&nbsp; People looking for one-night-stands put pure emphasis on the physical.&nbsp; You need to start getting regular exercise, regular hygiene, dressing clean and neat and working on social skills.&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;Your theory appears to be: &quot;why bother, when no one notices when I DO take care of these things?&quot;&nbsp; The fact is, those aren't guarantees...they're the cost of admission into the game.&nbsp; If you really desire companionship so desperately, pursue the goals aggresively.&nbsp; I recently decided to stop drinking soda, as part of my goal to lose weight.&nbsp; I started attending a gym.&nbsp; It wasn't always easy, but I did it.&nbsp; I haven't lost much weight, yet, but I'm getting there.&nbsp;&nbsp;If it's not a chemical imbalance, then it can be done, if you put your mind to it.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="WizarDru, post: 1745945, member: 151"] Assuming you have no medical insurance, there are plenty of free support groups that can help. A simple google of the health and human services in your area should help. Maybe part of the problem here is the goal. It sounds like you're not looking for a relationship, you're thinking purely in terms of sex. That's fine, but understand that if what you're really looking for is a shallow encounter for physical gratification, the rules change. People looking for one-night-stands put pure emphasis on the physical. You need to start getting regular exercise, regular hygiene, dressing clean and neat and working on social skills. Your theory appears to be: "why bother, when no one notices when I DO take care of these things?" The fact is, those aren't guarantees...they're the cost of admission into the game. If you really desire companionship so desperately, pursue the goals aggresively. I recently decided to stop drinking soda, as part of my goal to lose weight. I started attending a gym. It wasn't always easy, but I did it. I haven't lost much weight, yet, but I'm getting there. If it's not a chemical imbalance, then it can be done, if you put your mind to it. [/QUOTE]

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