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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Ferret" data-source="post: 3174188" data-attributes="member: 4052">To put things into perspective I'm 17 and she is 19, we are both still in full time education, and she is called Stacey.She is waiting for her record to change the reason of her leaving from Gross misconduct to quiting from her own choice, before she applies unfortunately this will take a few weeks. I won't go into detail but she was fired unfairly and appealed. She isn't ok where she is, her friend is at Uni (third year) and with that her friend can't keep her friend there without payment, and she can't give her friend any money. She didn't turn up at my house because 1) she thought her mum would check/phone there first and originally she didn't want anyone to know about her having been kicked out. 2) I live with my parents, and she could stay there without there permision. I have talked with my parents and they've agreed to put her up for a week, but no more.I think the money thing with her mum was partially her fault, she did spend money on things she shouldn't, but at the same time her mum was doing the same. Her mum isn't very mature and was 19 when she had Stacey so I don't think she has matured. She hasn't had a good set of relationships, as she has had children by three different fathers, but all in a pretty much legit relationship AFAIK. To the best of my knowlege she is persuing a relationship with  someone from africa. Now that could be ok, but she is acting as though she is 15 calling it true love etc. She spends all day (from about 10 in the morning to at least 2 or three in the morning, although at times she has been on till 6 in the morning), so she isn't the most responsible adult I know.I would have said me and Stacey are close, although we have only been going out for six months. If I could support her I would bring her in but I don't earn enough and don't want to be her crutch. That said she isn't the most 'stable' person, as she suffers from mild depression, anxiety and OCD, nor is she that...world-wise. So she doesn't know how processes like applying for benefits work, and stuff so I've tried to help with that.I also feel quite anxious about how this will turn out. I don't want my GF ending up on the street, but I can't imagine her having to live with me....not yet anyway.</blockquote>

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