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Message: <blockquote data-quote="fusangite" data-source="post: 484559" data-attributes="member: 7240">Well, way #1 is of course to let him see this post to the boards...However, I just want to stress that there is absolutely no general rule about how to do this. What you need to do is completely factor D&D out of the equation because of course this is not a gaming question at all but simply about etiquette. Imagine you do some other regular activity with this person. Ask people's advice on the pretense that you're in the same book club as they are -- or something. The important thing is to recognize that D&D is way more like other social activities than we pretend it is. Generally, there are three categories of action you can take:1. Disband the group and re-constitute it a month later with a slightly different set of people.2. Pretend you've cancelled the game.3. Tell some portion of the truth.The efficacy of these strategies will be completely determined by what the social relationship to this player.</blockquote>