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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Ashrum the Black" data-source="post: 484806" data-attributes="member: 1585">I also will chime in on the side of somebody that has been asked to leave. It was a personality conflict between myself and the DM. Basically he couldn't set aside out of game issues he had and asked me to leave, But here's where my caution comes in. Before you ask somebody to leave discuss things with the person. Perhaps they're doing something without even realising it. I was told that after a break we had had that things hadn't improved and he needed me to go. Unfortunatly I hadn't even known there was anything to improve as he never made his displeasure known. <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f641.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":(" title="Frown    :("  data-smilie="3"data-shortname=":(" /> Also, be honest with everybody involved. This individual asked me to go and stated that everybody was upset with me and wanted me out. Being friends with everybody I was very upset that they hadn't talked to me about this, but I felt it only right tht I at least call and tell everybody that I was sorry for ruining their fun and that I had no hard feelings and would gladly still do things with them outside of gaming. It was here that I found out from everbody else that this GM had done this without talking to any of them and that they had had no problem. This so irritated me, and my other friends that it effectively killed a gaming group that had been around for almost 10 years. So the moral of this story is that you should be honest, and talk it oout before you ask somebody to leave. Make sure everybody understands what's happening. Don't blindside the group or the individual with something like this if you value the friendships you have. <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f642.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":)" title="Smile    :)"  data-smilie="1"data-shortname=":)" /></blockquote>

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