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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Oryan77" data-source="post: 2705637" data-attributes="member: 18701">I doubt he would talk about this with his partying friends, but maybe he has with his gf. Maybe she pursuaded him to speak up about it. But this is all speculation and I don't want to assume anything. It wouldn't really matter anyway. No, him, his gf, me, and my gf all get along well together. His gf stays the night a lot but not enough to bother me, and he felt the same about my gf visiting. He had no problems with her staying with us, he's understanding about that at least  <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f61b.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":p" title="Stick out tongue    :p"  data-smilie="7"data-shortname=":p" />  I think part of the problem is that D&D isn't something that can include him at all and he doesn't want to play it. And he doesn't want to be forced into burrowing in his room when he doesn't normally hang out in his room anyway. Which I can understand. But is that really my problem when all he wants is to watch tv & eat dinner? He can do it in his room, he just doesn't think he should be forced to.That's exactly the impression I have & is a reason I was angry after reading his email...it seemed like he's getting too big for his pantaloons and is trying to be the dominant one in the house. He's getting used to being a bigshot at his job now so he's trying to exercise his muscle at home also. I think he does need to learn a bit of humility & concideration like you say. We pay equal rent & share everything 50/50. As I said, he's a good roommate besides this hic-up....best roommate I've had, and everyone knows how hard it is to get a good roommate.</blockquote>

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