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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Oryan77" data-source="post: 2705750" data-attributes="member: 18701">He's no prince, but you just pointed out my problem. He is a decent guy who honestly doesn't mind my gf staying with us. My gf does what she can to help out...cleans dishes, takes out trash, vacuumed our floor. He also doesn't mind because he knows I don't mind that his gf is over all of the time taking up space in the living room. That's why I'd rather handle this maturely and reasonably instead of being bull-headed also. I came here wondering if I can handle this without resorting to unnecessary tension in the house which will lead to an unhappy living environment. In over 3 years of living together, this is the first time we've ever raised our voices at each other about something. Like I said, I understand why he's annoyed, I sympathise with him...D&D demands a lot. But I don't agree with him that I should be completely forced to do what I want to do 100% by his schedule.Talking to him didn't work at first, but I've already gotten several ideas here that I can use as ammo for a 2nd conversation with him that might help us both agree on something.</blockquote>