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<blockquote data-quote="shilsen" data-source="post: 3992206" data-attributes="member: 198"><p>Hey, as long as you know what you're doing ... <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I believe that if you hit your head against a wall long enough, that desire goes away.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>There lies the difference between us, I guess. For you, this would apparently count as "direct confrontation" and getting "down and personal". Whereas for me, it would count as having a casual and friendly chat with a player (and, according to your post, a friend) about the game and what she thinks of it and what I think of it. There's absolutely no reason why it should be such a grim matter. Seriously, you're talking to someone about how her imaginary friend acts. Getting worried about that and taking it really seriously is making it out to be a way bigger issue than it is. And, ironically, the more worried and serious you get about it the worse it probably will be. </p><p></p><p>Because, face it, you don't have a problem. A problem is standing on a beach in Thailand and being hit in the face by a tsunami. You have, at worst, a minor inconvenience. Just treat it as such, have a casual chat with the player without getting all excited, and chances are it'll all be fine.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="shilsen, post: 3992206, member: 198"] Hey, as long as you know what you're doing ... :D I believe that if you hit your head against a wall long enough, that desire goes away. There lies the difference between us, I guess. For you, this would apparently count as "direct confrontation" and getting "down and personal". Whereas for me, it would count as having a casual and friendly chat with a player (and, according to your post, a friend) about the game and what she thinks of it and what I think of it. There's absolutely no reason why it should be such a grim matter. Seriously, you're talking to someone about how her imaginary friend acts. Getting worried about that and taking it really seriously is making it out to be a way bigger issue than it is. And, ironically, the more worried and serious you get about it the worse it probably will be. Because, face it, you don't have a problem. A problem is standing on a beach in Thailand and being hit in the face by a tsunami. You have, at worst, a minor inconvenience. Just treat it as such, have a casual chat with the player without getting all excited, and chances are it'll all be fine. [/QUOTE]
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