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<blockquote data-quote="jdrakeh" data-source="post: 4453699" data-attributes="member: 13892">Cheating has nothing to with playstyles or rules preferences but rather, a deliberate decision to engage in dishonesty. What I would recommend is that you talk to the problem player about her decision to be dishonest and tell her that it's causing issues with the other players who have chosen to not be dishonest. Explain that she basically has two option: 1. Start being honest. 2. Start playing in a different group. That said, if the issue is only bothering you and none of the other players have specifically spoken to you about the dishonesty of this person, then you may be projecting your own feelings about the matter onto the other members of the group (i.e., assuming that the behavior in question is a big deal to everybody, when it isn't). Ask your other players about it, specifically. If your other players are bothered by the situation, then confront the problem player. If it's now sweat off their backs, then you probably shouldn't sweat it, either, lest you come off looking like an obsessive control freak to the rest of the group <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f609.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=";)" title="Wink&nbsp; &nbsp; ;)"&nbsp; data-smilie="2"data-shortname=";)" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="jdrakeh, post: 4453699, member: 13892"] Cheating has nothing to with playstyles or rules preferences but rather, a deliberate decision to engage in dishonesty. What I would recommend is that you talk to the problem player about her decision to be dishonest and tell her that it's causing issues with the other players who have chosen to not be dishonest. Explain that she basically has two option: 1. Start being honest. 2. Start playing in a different group. That said, if the issue is only bothering [I]you[/I] and none of the other players have [I]specifically spoken to you[/I] about the dishonesty of this person, then you may be projecting your own feelings about the matter onto the other members of the group (i.e., assuming that the behavior in question is a big deal to everybody, when it isn't). Ask your other players about it, [I]specifically[/I]. If your other players are bothered by the situation, [I]then[/I] confront the problem player. If it's now sweat off their backs, then you probably shouldn't sweat it, either, lest you come off looking like an obsessive control freak to the rest of the group ;) [/QUOTE]

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