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<blockquote data-quote="AuroraGyps" data-source="post: 1964662" data-attributes="member: 1166">OK, so a while ago my therapist told me I should try writing a letter to my ex. to help with dealing with my feelings and closure (ya know, one that I may not ever even send him).&nbsp; I've had things running through my head for a while, lots of issues I have with how things went, but I can't seem to write the letter.&nbsp; It's hard enough having all that stuff in my mind, but putting into words on paper, seeing it in black &amp; white... for some reason it terrifies me.&nbsp; Has anybody ever had to do this themselves?&nbsp; Any tips?&nbsp; How do I get started?&nbsp; How do get into the mind set/mood to write such a difficult thing?&nbsp; What color ink do I use (ok, that's kinda a joke, but even that I can't decide on <img src="http://www.enworld.org/forum/images/smilies/nervous.png"&nbsp; class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":heh:" title="Nervous Laugh&nbsp; &nbsp; :heh:" data-shortname=":heh:" /> )?&nbsp; I bought 2 red notebooks just for this, so I can write the letter, that could be sent to him, and then make a copy for myself just in case.&nbsp; That's all I've got though.&nbsp; Any help, advice, and/or just good thoughts are really, really appriciated.&nbsp; Thanks bunches.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="AuroraGyps, post: 1964662, member: 1166"] OK, so a while ago my therapist told me I should try writing a letter to my ex. to help with dealing with my feelings and closure (ya know, one that I may not ever even send him). I've had things running through my head for a while, lots of issues I have with how things went, but I can't seem to write the letter. It's hard enough having all that stuff in my mind, but putting into words on paper, seeing it in black & white... for some reason it terrifies me. Has anybody ever had to do this themselves? Any tips? How do I get started? How do get into the mind set/mood to write such a difficult thing? What color ink do I use (ok, that's kinda a joke, but even that I can't decide on :heh: )? I bought 2 red notebooks just for this, so I can write the letter, that could be sent to him, and then make a copy for myself just in case. That's all I've got though. Any help, advice, and/or just good thoughts are really, really appriciated. Thanks bunches. [/QUOTE]

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