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Message: <blockquote data-quote="AuroraGyps" data-source="post: 1967567" data-attributes="member: 1166">I don't think I will EVER forgive him, or his family and his friends, for how I was treated.  Even if I don't forgive, I have to work on not being so angry and bitter.  I don't know if I'll ever send this thing either, but I'm not afraid to be honest to him about how I feel.  When he decided he wanted a divorce, he said he had to be selfish... when I needed to to tell him how things were effecting me (when telling a therapist or my mom didn't help), I told him, saying that I had to be selfish too, for my own health.   Devilish, thanks for the advice.  Unfortunately, I have some time dependant things I'm working on and need to concentrate on.  However, I plan to do exactly what you recommended once some of these other things are straightened out, which should hopefully be by the end of this week, if not sooner (& I'm hoping for sooner).  It's a lot of paperwork and dealing with people, both of which I'm very bad at and get really, really stressed out about.  So, "the letter" will have to wait until some of these other things are ironed out, cause I can't fit more on my plate (which doesn't hold much of anything... it's more like a saucer, than a plate :\ ).  Thanks for the advice though.</blockquote>