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<blockquote data-quote="Majoru Oakheart" data-source="post: 6646303" data-attributes="member: 5143">I'm in agreement.&nbsp; I expected that we'd been friends for so many years that she would say &quot;Alright, we're dating now, you have to stop insulting him.&nbsp; I like him and it's annoying.&quot; but I didn't expect her to go &quot;Oh, and I told him everything you said because we were talking about it one day.&quot;&nbsp; Especially given they had only been dating for 3 weeks or something.&nbsp; But then again, nothing about their relationship seemed normal.One day she was making fun of him along side me and the next she's moving in with him after 3 dates.&nbsp; She also spent the last 4 years making fun of people who would play MMORPGs, she'd go on about how stupid WoW was and how people were wasting their time.&nbsp; We got kind of tired of her rants, to be fair.&nbsp; But he loved WoW.&nbsp; She tried it &quot;just to make him feel like she had tried&quot;.&nbsp; Now, she's in a raiding group that meets 3 days a week and we aren't allowed to do anything at all together on those 3 days because she HAS to be online those 3 days every week to play.&nbsp; Plus, she's forcing us all to build costumes for the premiere of the Warcraft movie.She's the sort of woman who is willing to completely subsume her own personality for the sake of a relationship.&nbsp; I've seen her do it before.&nbsp; Her ex bf used to constantly verbally abuse her and she'd end up agreeing with him half the time.She dates people who are not good for her at all but then completely looks past all their flaws and spends 100% of her time with them and changes all her opinions to agree with them.&nbsp; It's probably not healthy but she's been doing it for the 12 or so years that I've known her for.&nbsp; It's really not my place to say anything about it.&nbsp; But I worry about her sometimes.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Majoru Oakheart, post: 6646303, member: 5143"] I'm in agreement. I expected that we'd been friends for so many years that she would say "Alright, we're dating now, you have to stop insulting him. I like him and it's annoying." but I didn't expect her to go "Oh, and I told him everything you said because we were talking about it one day." Especially given they had only been dating for 3 weeks or something. But then again, nothing about their relationship seemed normal. One day she was making fun of him along side me and the next she's moving in with him after 3 dates. She also spent the last 4 years making fun of people who would play MMORPGs, she'd go on about how stupid WoW was and how people were wasting their time. We got kind of tired of her rants, to be fair. But he loved WoW. She tried it "just to make him feel like she had tried". Now, she's in a raiding group that meets 3 days a week and we aren't allowed to do anything at all together on those 3 days because she HAS to be online those 3 days every week to play. Plus, she's forcing us all to build costumes for the premiere of the Warcraft movie. She's the sort of woman who is willing to completely subsume her own personality for the sake of a relationship. I've seen her do it before. Her ex bf used to constantly verbally abuse her and she'd end up agreeing with him half the time. She dates people who are not good for her at all but then completely looks past all their flaws and spends 100% of her time with them and changes all her opinions to agree with them. It's probably not healthy but she's been doing it for the 12 or so years that I've known her for. It's really not my place to say anything about it. But I worry about her sometimes. [/QUOTE]

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