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<blockquote data-quote="Majoru Oakheart" data-source="post: 7006978" data-attributes="member: 5143"><p>I know this is a thread necro and I don't want to start this conversation again but I figured with so many people giving me advice that I'd update you as to what happened.</p><p></p><p>Since we had the last conversation in this thread, I haven't talked to them at all. At the end of 2015, they invited us to New Year's Eve at their house but they did it by texting my girlfriend in the afternoon of December 31 and inviting her but saying it was ok if she brought be along. We had some other plans already so we declined. They haven't tried to invite us to anything since. We are still friends on Facebook, Steam, and some other places but they haven't replied to a single status message or post I made except one where I was complaining that I was finding it difficult getting people to commit to my games because of how busy they were and the woman showed up to laugh at me.</p><p></p><p>My AL games have been going well. We are basically at the same number of people as before. We lost 2 more people a short while ago when the two people in question moved their home game to Tuesdays and they were forced to choose my AL games or their home game. They left.</p><p></p><p>We have a bunch of new players, so that's good. I've been introducing new people to D&D. Most of them are fairly young and excitable. Which is good and bad.</p><p></p><p>I'm enjoying DMing much more than before. We haven't had any more public blow ups but one new player added me as a friend on Facebook after showing up for a couple of months. She didn't like something I said on Facebook and blew up on me online that was completely non-D&D related (I said I wasn't particularly concerned over whether or not Twi'leks in Star Wars always wore skimpy clothing or not since it wasn't that big of a deal), saying that she couldn't stand having a DM whose opinions were horrible. She used a much worse word though.</p><p></p><p>I did randomly run into the two people the original post was about at Olive Garden 2 days ago. They didn't say anything to me, I didn't say anything to them. It was her birthday dinner, I think. One of our mutual friends who was with them did text me, saying "Is that you at Olive Garden?" I said yes, but he never further responded or came over to my table to say hi. I haven't spoken to him in a long time, so I think he never heard about the fact that I wasn't friends with them anymore. I think they explained and he decided it was best not to get involved.</p><p></p><p>It is still awkward and I wanted to go over and say something to them, but I had no idea what to say. They never apologized to me and I still think I'm owed one before I could think about hanging out with them in a non-D&D capacity again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Majoru Oakheart, post: 7006978, member: 5143"] I know this is a thread necro and I don't want to start this conversation again but I figured with so many people giving me advice that I'd update you as to what happened. Since we had the last conversation in this thread, I haven't talked to them at all. At the end of 2015, they invited us to New Year's Eve at their house but they did it by texting my girlfriend in the afternoon of December 31 and inviting her but saying it was ok if she brought be along. We had some other plans already so we declined. They haven't tried to invite us to anything since. We are still friends on Facebook, Steam, and some other places but they haven't replied to a single status message or post I made except one where I was complaining that I was finding it difficult getting people to commit to my games because of how busy they were and the woman showed up to laugh at me. My AL games have been going well. We are basically at the same number of people as before. We lost 2 more people a short while ago when the two people in question moved their home game to Tuesdays and they were forced to choose my AL games or their home game. They left. We have a bunch of new players, so that's good. I've been introducing new people to D&D. Most of them are fairly young and excitable. Which is good and bad. I'm enjoying DMing much more than before. We haven't had any more public blow ups but one new player added me as a friend on Facebook after showing up for a couple of months. She didn't like something I said on Facebook and blew up on me online that was completely non-D&D related (I said I wasn't particularly concerned over whether or not Twi'leks in Star Wars always wore skimpy clothing or not since it wasn't that big of a deal), saying that she couldn't stand having a DM whose opinions were horrible. She used a much worse word though. I did randomly run into the two people the original post was about at Olive Garden 2 days ago. They didn't say anything to me, I didn't say anything to them. It was her birthday dinner, I think. One of our mutual friends who was with them did text me, saying "Is that you at Olive Garden?" I said yes, but he never further responded or came over to my table to say hi. I haven't spoken to him in a long time, so I think he never heard about the fact that I wasn't friends with them anymore. I think they explained and he decided it was best not to get involved. It is still awkward and I wanted to go over and say something to them, but I had no idea what to say. They never apologized to me and I still think I'm owed one before I could think about hanging out with them in a non-D&D capacity again. [/QUOTE]
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